A happily single woman blogging about her search to find a happily single man.

Sunday, May 4, 2008

Babystep to loserworld

My friend force promised me to create a profile in a traditional Indian matrimonial site.

The pervert that I am, I created a profile which 99.999999999999999% of men will run away from. Lets see if I get any hits!

I'm a happy person leading a single life. This profile is more for the peace of mind of my friend who thinks that I may end up an old maid ( which I don't really mind - I rather like Miss Marple).

I am pretty much easy going. I love traveling, photography, books, movies and comics. I love music, but is not particular about a genre.

I am looking for a guy who is intelligent and self confident, with a sense of humor. Additional points if you are cute! :) I hate whiners and high maintenance types. I don't care if you are not a virgin.

And me? I'm tiny - 160 cm or whereabouts, thin, and get asked for age verification whenever I go to a club here( the age limit here is 18 and above). I am fairly social, love to chat up with friends, love trekking, stop most of the dogs I meet on the road to pet them ( sadly I don't have one now) am amused by babies and animals, and have a fear of falling. My friends say that I have beautiful eyes, hair, lips and smile - but they are my friends, so they could be very partial to me :) I have short-sight, and wear specs ( want to get lasik done sometime in future). I prefer western dresses to Indian ones.

I don't believe that just because you are married, you have to give up on your identity. I have good friends of both sexes, whom I don't expect to give up after my marriage. I have gay men as friends, so if you get freaked out on homosexuals, we surely wont gel. I am a good cook, but I believe in splitting house work 50-50. I value my identity and freedom, and I will value yours too. Whatever I expect from a marriage, I am willing to give back into the partnership.

I would still want to go on trips with my friends where you may not be invited. But you can ( and must) have your alone time too.

I don't like cheating in a relationship, and I don't appreciate getting cheated on. I prefer an amicable divorce to an unhappy (or boring ) marriage.

I believe that marriage takes time, take effort, and am willing to invest in a relationship.

I believe that in a marriage it is important for both people to be friends and lovers. So I am now looking for friends, with whom I may hopefully have some chemistry in future. So if you want to get married, ASAP, I'm not for you.

I want my kids to grow up as strong individuals. I don't believe in mollycoddling children. I would like to adopt a child.

And don't click on this thinking that you can change me. You cant. And I am under no illusion that I can change another human being either.

So if you are the kind looking for a non clingy wife and love dogs, let me know :)



Hobbit is still playing hard to get. But he is amazingly cute, with a very childlike innocence. I would like to see how he kisses. Damn, I would love to marry him and have his kids! Why are men so mysterious? I cant make out if he likes me or not - and it doesnt help that he works in my company, in the same office. Why did he have to come and sit next to me in the bus?

I hate him!

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